Pardon my grumpiness, but you know a name is sub-optimal when one references the pronunciation right in the title. Or maybe it's another cutesy pun, or an 'in-group' reference. Those always work out, right? :)
This is a great rule. It’s right up there with “if you have to spell out your new kid’s name every time, don’t call them that (or at least don’t spell it that way” and “when you write a comment, explain it to your duck, then delete the original and replace it with what you told the duck.”
I'm a bit annoyed because I have a daughter whose name was pronounced correctly by everyone when she was young (it was an alternate spelling of a popular name, there was a fairly well known actress with it spelled and pronounced that way).
In the past decade though, there's a new name spelled the same way but with a different pronunciation and everyone now says her name wrong... she's taken to going by her middle name now because of how much it annoys her.